I wish someone could help my poor sister . She is 47 and has really deteriorated in the last 18mths .. Her memory is really bad and she does random things. She nearly died back in April she set herself alight. Trying to light a cigarette on a gas cooker, spent 3 weeks in Salisbury burns unit. She needs 24 hour care. But my mum refuses to put her in a home .. My mum is 72 and caring for her full time .. Wish I could help her x